Once upon a time, you were a baby inside a womb. Inside that womb, you were in love with yourself because you did not know there was any other alternative. Your only job was to float inside the womb loving yourself, and you did it well. You and your host body were One. That was …
My beautiful friend Mal Duane and I recently sat down to talk about the four questions that can lead us to finding love, nurturing the love we already have, and creating a meaningful fulfilling life in every way for her podcast Awakening Divine Wildness. Asking good questions and learning how to listen to the answers is …
Reader Question: How do you tell a soulmate you are not in love with them anymore? We have been together quite a while and I still love her, but I’m not In Love with her. I know we’re soulmates, but I just don’t think we’re meant to be together long term romantically. How do I …
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Reader Question: I’m struggling with having unconditional love, especially for my mate and my family. I grew up with a very critical mother and work on myself daily not to become her, but sometimes fall back into being critical of things I don’t like or having expectations of others. I so badly want to break …
Folks often ask “When will I meet my soulmate?” Sometimes, it’s possible to look at them, listen to the underlying thoughts and beliefs of what they are saying, and tell whether meeting a Beloved is their true intent or still just a hopeful/hopeless dream. I can often “hear” whether they are clearing or inadvertently blocking, …
Reader Question – Do you really believe in true love? Don’t you think it’s just a made-for-TV fairy tale? I hate to sound so cynical, but if I’ve lived this long and never seen it in real life, I have to wonder if it’s just a myth. Wouldn’t I be better off accepting that the …
If you’re a reader of Conscious Dating you know that I’ve been married and divorced twice. After my last divorce I thought I met my soul mate but that relationship ended after 5 years. Since then I’ve done a lot of soul searching and focused on living the life I want while continuing to date …
Reader Question – I really like the question last week about soulmates being other people to us in other lifetimes. But what I would like to know is this: When you meet your twin flame, does that mean you will no longer need to reincarnate and that you have reached enlightenment? Exploring this question is very …
When We Meet Our Twin Soul Are We Done with Reincarnation? Read More »
Love Is Respect is a joint project of the National Domestic Violence Hotline and Break the Cycle created to build more healthy relationships and save more lives. They designed Love Is Respect to: • Be the ultimate resource for fostering healthy dating attitudes and nurturing healthy relationships. • Provide a safe place for young people …
Reader Question: “I have found my soulmate, but she doesn’t love me back. What should I do?” Loving someone when they don’t love you back is exhausting and frustrating. You die a little every day. Thankfully, you have choices. It’s the expectation of returned love that is causing you grief, not the fact of her …
I have Found My Soulmate, but She Doesn’t Love Me Back. What Should I Do? Read More »
Reader Question: What happens when one soulmate is more spiritually awake than the other? When my girlfriend and I first met, we were on the same path. After we moved in together, she seemed to lose interest in her own seeking while I have continued. It’s getting harder and harder to feel connected. Can this …
What Happens When One Soulmate Is More Spiritually Awake than the Other? Read More »
Life changes forever the moment you hear the word “cancer” used in a sentence with your own name. What an understatement! If you choose a conventional route of chemo and radiation as I did back in 2002 when it was my name in that sentence, the days become a whirlwind of doctors’ appointments, surgery, chemo, …
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Steve and I are often asked how we finally found each other. The short answer is simple: we stopped looking. How many times over the years did folks offer that frustrating well-intentioned advice? You’ll find The One when you least expect. When you stop looking… When you stop “settling…” When you get all the “wrong” ones …
