(originally written at the beginning of Advent in 1998, updated in November 2017) Although I’m agnostic, every Christmas season as our children were growing up …
The Case for Spoiling Our Four-Legged Friends – Soulmate Pets
When Steve and I first met, I was owned by a rescue kitty named Callie Mae who had come into my life as a hostess …
5 Tips for Surviving Sandwich Generation Stress
It was September of 2011, and I was planning what was intended to be a quick weekend visit to my parents. A few days before …
How Do You Ask for Help When You Are the Primary Caregiver for an Elderly Parent?
I have been dreading dealing with this topic – being a caregiver – for days, but it is important. I read an article recently while …
Is It Too Late for Me to Find a Soulmate? – Finding (and Keeping) Love After 50
Reader Question – Is it too late for me to find a soulmate? Is it really possible to find love and your soulmate when you …
My Soulmate Died – Will I Ever Find Another? (Video)
Reader Question – I lost my soulmate to cancer several years ago and I haven’t been able to find anyone that compares to him. People …
My New Boyfriend Has a Problem with My Cordial Divorce
Reader Question – My husband and I divorced last year, and we have been successful at doing this in a mindful way. We have grown children …
My Boyfriend’s Back: Getting a Second Chance with an Old Soulmate
Reader Question – An old soulmate has reconnected. He’s getting a divorce and my marriage is unhappy. Is this a sign we are meant to …
So, You Found Your Soulmate…Now What?
When soulmates recognize one another and become a romantic couple, it can happen immediately and all-at-once, as if light streamed down from the heavens, or …
Happy Valentine’s Day to My Own Beloved
Our first official date was on Valentine’s Day. We were meeting for lunch and he arrived first, armed with candy hearts spelling out his future …
I Think She’s My Soul Twin, but We’re Both Married
Reader Question: I’ve met someone and think she is my twin soul, but we’re both married. She makes me feel alive and excited in ways …
There Are No Soulmates
Reader Question: Would you please comment on this article – The First Lesson of Marriage 101: There Are No Soulmates. This is an excellent article! …
An Old Soulmate has Returned. Is That a Sign?
Reader Question: My soulmate and I met when we were first out of college. We had a brief relationship (about a year), but he moved …
My Soulmate Died. Will I Ever Meet Anyone Who Compares?
Reader Question: I lost my soulmate to cancer several years ago and I haven’t been able to find anyone that compares to him. People keep telling …
How Can There Be Twin Souls if We Are All One?
Reader Question: I’ve been reading up on twin flames, but I’m confused about the idea. If we are all just one big “soul” anyway, how …
Is the Quest for that Perfect Soulmate Doing More Harm than Good?
A recent soulmate question, How Do You Tell a Soulmate You Are Not In Love with Them Anymore?, generated a flurry of comments and additional …
How Do You Tell a Soulmate You Are Not in Love with Them Anymore?
Reader Question: How do you tell a soulmate you are not in love with them anymore? We have been together quite a while and I …
My Favorite Soulmate Story of All Time
This is my favorite Soulmate Story of all time. There once was an elderly couple who had enjoyed a long and happy relationship despite the fact …
I Got Divorced 10 Years Ago and No New Relationships have Worked Out. This is Depressing!
Reader Question: I got divorced 10 years ago. I’ve had relationships sometimes, but none worked out. Now I’ve been looking for my soulmate, but I can’t …
Can Your Friends Be Your Soulmates, Too?
Reader Question: Can your friends be soulmates, too? I have friends that I have known all my life and that have been there for me through …